You should've been more specific in your opening post that you were going to be flat out Monk 11. When you say help building a monk, most people are going to assume you're building an unarmed specialist, and since you're on min/max they'll assume you want to do it well. Often when people don't get what they "asked" for on min/max, they didn't phrase their question well enough.
For feats Improved Natural Attack, possibly intuitive strike (wis to hit), snap kick, robilar's gambit (requires a lot of bab), power attack/shocktrooper/battle jump are always good.
Try and get your hands on an amulet of natural attacks (savage species).
Consider going a single level into shiba protector (requires 3 terrible feats, but monk variants can get you 2) and you'll have wis to damage. That would let you ignore str altogether and give you higher AC.
A single level in barbarian with the lion totem variant(Complete Champion) could net you pounce, allowing you to use monks extra mobility to do something useful.
