Currently, TEAM is a Crusader 5 // Stalwart Battle Sorcerer 1 / Incarnate 4.
However, this character has only 1 familiar, even though share soulmeld is critical to this build.
I've considered a different approach:
Starting the same way, as Crusader // Sorcerer, using feats for shared dissolving spittle from level 1.
The 2nd level, I'd retrain a feat(martial weapon proficiency from stalwart sorcerer) to practiced spellcaster(sorcerer) and advance as Crusader // Incarnate -> Crusader 2 // Sorcerer 1 / Incarnate 1.
The 3rd level, I'd dip a level of druid, choosing the urban companion ACF(that has been ruled to work with share soulmeld!) and take the feat Obtain familiar, granting me a second familiar and an urban companion(which is better than a familiar in every way, because it returns after 24h if slain, has 3/4 HP instead of 1/2, and forces no xp loss on death).
The 4th level, I'd continue leveling as Incarnate //Something with Full BAB(Crusader3, perhaps).
The 5th level, I'd continue leveling as Incarnate, and would like to pick a class that allows me to qualify for BEASTMASTER from complete adventurer(Requirements: Survival 4 ranks, Handle Animal 8 ranks, Skill focus(Handle Animal)), which would grant me more allies to share soulmelds with.
A dip into wizard, trading the familiar for an animal companion(UA variant) would grant an additional share soulmeld target.
I need help to qualify for Beastmaster, effectively.