incarnate2 is always a fun dip when you can fit it in. two of your soulmelds should be crystal helm(bound to crown) and planar ward, and then you get one spare. the planar ward is immunity to compulsions, charms and possesions, while the chakra bound crystal helm is the force descriptor added to your lash.
"ha! I STABILIZED the ectoplasm in my whip!"
grab strongheart vest with it, and its the ultimate "fuck you ghosts" spec there is. force descriptor attack, deflection bonus to AC, immunity to all their good shit, and DR against their ability damage. fun times.