I suppose if you really like the monk theres the Sorcadin+Monk+Hexblade, on Gestalt...
Saves and AC through the roof.
Actually, I really like that idea... but I'm not sure about lvls, and I guess now I might wind up switching monk for the swordsage, and maybe do something different with the hexblade. Add in halfling, and thats a +1 to everything.
Now I'm thinking, in case he wants to throw Mage's Disjunction at me, I might go with VoP, which will still give me some nice saves, ability bonuses, resistances, etc, and throw some aging onto that to increase stats even more.
edit: alright, ive calculated the scores and everything....
If we go with a 18 17 16 15 14 13 score setup like we were thinking(put some extra power in there), I'd wind up with:
STR:5 (-3)
DEX:12(+1)
CON:11(0)
INT,WIS, CHA will depend on build, but have 21(+5), 26 (+8), and 33(+11)
I'd really like to get Serenity(from Dragon Magazine), but I dunno if DM is allowed. If I do, I'd probably put my highest in Wisdom, and instead of Sorc, use Generic Divine caster, maybe a real DC class. then I'd probably have a will save(including divine grace, switched to wisdom) of my base save+26. I don't know what the base save is yet because I don't know what I'm going to go.
I think I'm going to take Intuitive Attack to use Wis on attacks(still have monk or unarmed SS), since I've got plenty of Exalted Feats.
My AC would be 35(11 Wis, 1 dex, 1 size(halfling), 10 VoP, 2 VoP Nat Armor)