So... I'm trying to finish up a build for a campaign I'm playing, it's supposed to fill the roles of "meatshield" (flanking with the rogue, stopping people trying to reach the squishies in the back, acting as a first line of defense and all) and support-healer/resser (since most of the healing is done by the bard, we need someone to heal a bit more when needed and to ress people since the bard doesn't get Revivify and True Resurrection). Plus all our team is a sneak-team that does infiltration/scouting and surgical strike missions for our army against the opposing one.
The Build is supposed to look something like this: Dip 1-2/Crusader 3-4/Ur-Priest 2/Ruby Knight Vindicator 10/Crusader 3
Race is preferably Human, but almost anything LA +0 goes as long as it's not orc/goblin/kobold/... or similar races (we're against a nation composed mostly by "ugly humanoids", ours is 85/90% composed by humans and human variants (illumians, half-elfs, silverbrow humans, azurin, etc...)
"must have feats" are Practiced Spellcaster and Apprentice (Sneak) (for hide and move silently as class skills). 2 Flaws allowed.
Allowed Books are... all of them, all settings, website, except anything related to psionics since they don't exist in the setting. Dragon Magazine will be decided in a case by case basis (wizard and sorceror have both Easy Metamagic, wizard also has Enhanced Shadow Reality, so usually it's a yes)
The Questions
* What's the best dip to get the +3 will save and the skills needed for Ur-Priest? (either at lvl 1-2 or 3-4) If it gives Turn Undead it's a plus since I'll need only one level of Ur-Priest, but Cleric Turn Undead is lost when entering the PrC so Cleric is a no-no.
* Since we're Neutral/Good (NG, N, LN, LN, CG) what would you get as alternative version of Ur-Priest? (yay, rp optimization!) I was thinking of a order trying to re-elevate to godhood a forgotten god that might or might not have been real (some sorta of LN good of sneaky vengeance), but I'm open to suggestion.
* I want him to sneak with no skill maluses in the biggest kind of plate I can get my hands on, so.. any way to reduce the skill maluses is welcome (For now Mithral and the Nimbleness enhancement, plus masterwork remove 6 and I need 3 more for the Mountain Plate or at least one for the Battle Plate)
Also any other suggestion that follows the spirit of the character is welcome, I'm trying to make him fat, but first and foremost it must stick on the concept.