So, i looked into all those builds now and i think i will go now with Monk 2/Cleric 4/Sacred Fist 10/Contemplative 1/Cleric 1 or Cleric PrC 1
Cleric 3/Monk 2/Sacred Fist 3/Prestige Paladin 1/Sacred Fist +7/Cleric PrCs 2
Can't qualify for Sacred Fist that way, also normal Paladin is allowed, so Prestige Paladin is out and you can't take a break in Sacred Fist.
Another vote for Monk 2/Cleric 6/Sacred Fist 10. If your DM goes by text-trumps-tables then this is a 16th-level caster, if not then 14th. This is an important distinction because at 15th level you get the spells Embrace the Dark Chaos and Shun the Dark Chaos which allow you to turn all of those useless Exalted feats into something workable, although you'll have to do a 180 on your Law/Chaos axis at some point between here and there. Sure you'd be an Ex-Monk at that point, but there's worse things than being an Ex-Monk.
Wouldn't ordered chaos help him with that?
No, it won't, because you've already taken a level of Cleric, anyway, and therefore can't advance more Monk. The penalty for becoming a non-lawful monk is that you can't advance more Monk, you keep literally everything else. As such, taking the Ordered Chaos feat would just be a waste of a feat.
But you'd retrain the feat anyway with Embrace/Shun combo, so it doesn't really matter.
Not sure if my DM allows Embrace/Shun combo, but it seems to me like the VoP would be really worthwhile that way.
Cleric Domains: Travel/Planning
Contemplative Domain will be Undeath for another Extra Turning.
Feats:
3: Combat Casting
6: Persist Spell
9: DMM: Persist Spell
12:
15:
18:
Which feats should I take? Extra Turning till the end, or also something else?