Wow I take forever to reply. I know there's been at least half a dozen posts since I started working on this.
Just make sure you aren't ignoring her when she wants attention.
And as women are vile creatures, we won't always be straight forward about when we want something.
So some girls find nerdiness attractive.
I know I'm asking the wrong crowd, but do non-gamer guys find nerdy girls attractive?
Or is even asking if a gamer-girl is allowed to date outside the gaming community blasphemy because we're such a rare commodity?
Heretic!!! Burn the infidel!!! (just kidding!)
Hey, if you all looked like Vin Diesel, we wouldn't have any problems.
Nerdy girls are usually [...] into weirder stuff.
I AM OFFENDED!
*hides folder of bondage, tentacles, and futanari*Oh, and when she wants my attention while I'm playing X, she usually comes up and humps my shoulder.
And you stop, right?
One of my friends was feeling down and her bf wasn't getting the hint that she needed attention when she was rubbing on him. And then it made her feel worse.
Most people don't believe they're hot! (Except for those few cocky individuals who make it their career to be "hot" according to society's standards and have nothing else going for them).
Some people think they're good looking, which is great. More power to them. But a lot of people have self esteem issues since they don't fit the "norm" for beauty. Who cares? Chances are, someone's going to see you, and they're going to think you're the most handsome guy/most beautiful girl ever. Regardless of what you think you are, someone else is going to see you differently. Love is blind, afterall...
Wha? Darn! I was going to ask when I turned into a guy and then you went and edited it to cover both genders.
I call BS on the 'love is blind' part of this, but with everything else I agree. There are billions of people around the world and I dare to say a vast majority does not believe in the crap fashion magazines and TV tells them to be handsome and beautiful. Heck, my picture is up in the Real life picture thread and anyone can tell I looks weak and probably not too much like those models you compare yourseld either, but that doesn't mean you can't look good. Walk up to the mirror, look at yourself and say "Heck, I looking fucking good" a few times, sit back, take a deep breath and do it again. I tell you people, it's no magic, you truly are beautiful.
Easier said than done.
My church recently did pictures for the directory and for some reason we went and bought a picture package. (Damn pictures are so f'ing expensive.) They did that whole "which do you like better?" thing where you have to pick which picture you like and I'm thinking "Hell, delete 'em all!"
Long story short, by the time we left, I wanted to ram my face against a belt sander.
(I'm just reinforcing my negative self-image of myself, aren't I? :-\ )
I'm not sure if this has been answered yet, but
What is the correct way to take a compliment?
Especially if it's something you've never considered one of your good features?