I don't think you guys would even know he tried, success or not, would you?
Actually, the rules are not that clear about that. I'd think that if there was even a reflexive attempt at resisting, one would know.
I disagree, and thought that's generally the way people ran it...
So... here is a rules quote I found on it:
Succeeding on a Saving Throw
So it looks like creatures that
succeed would know
someone tried
something, but they wouldn't know
what or
who. I have never seen anything anywhere that said that a creature who
fails knows
anything. So from now on, that's exactly how I'm running it. If you fail, you know nothing, unless there is some obvious effect like a fireball burns your face off. If you save, you feel a tingle. That's it, unless you have some means of further discerning what happened.
So none of you know what was done. Those who resisted know
something was tried on them. Those that failed haven't got a clue. Please update your posts to fit this, and sorry I didn't clarify it from the beginning. If it's helpful, I can delete the original posts.