well i admit im a little overwhelmed here and im not exactly sure how to go about it
Don't worry too much, you've started off better than a number of others.
First, (regarding the op) you might want to be a bit more careful with spelling and grammar.
Mistakes are ok, but it is difficult to read and understand your post without some real effort.
Second, The Lurker gave some good advice. There's plenty of handbooks both here and on the Wizards of the Coast forums that have oodles of tips and tricks to making characters.
Once you reach epic levels, Epic Spellcasting breaks the game in half. If you're aiming for that, go ahead and go with wizard.
Once you get a build, postpone as many of the extra feats as you can. If you can use them to buy epic feats at level 25, you can really load up.