Polymorph any object uses the PH2 rules, and we have an agreement that it has to be used for dramatic purposes. I don't turn dragons into sheep.
I cannot get craft contingent spell, but a scroll of contingency is a good idea, though quite challenging given the DM and setting. He's a right stingy bastard.
What I hate about cloudkill is this: it's indiscriminate (though being a lich and having undead minions means it doesn't hurt me), it lasts a long time and therefore has a good chance to kill innocents, and I have no control over it at all, making it only truely useful when I control the battle's terrain (or get lucky by finding a bowl). Otherwise yeah, it's excellent.
If I were to add 3 more spells, of the abjuration, transmutation, necromancy, or conjuration schools, what aught they be?