It was Labour Weekend here. Which means a long weekend. Yay. If only there was actually anything to do that don't involve getting drunk out of your skull and then getting behind the wheel of a car. Or sandflies. Or being out in the Sun wherein even SPF gazillion sunblock won't save you from skin cancer (highest rate per capita of melanoma in the world, and don't you forget it).
But it wasn't all bad. Had a mellow gathering with some friends, and during the conversation, which inevitably gravitated to the upcoming elections, I noted something:
The Kiwis (and those who were born in Retardland) were moaning about the rich getting richer and the poor getting poorer (something about National's tax cuts, which, if you look at it, gave the poor a higher percentage of cuts than the rich, but the raw numbers for the rich were higher). They were also moaning about how the rich should help the poor, and how they hate the fat cats and their flash cars and houses (sounds familiar, eh?). The migrants (just a couple of us) were saying that they or their parents worked to get where they are now. The Kiwis replied with "You're rich, you don't know what it is like to be poor." Then they started attacking Asian parents that give their kids everything, and insulting the Asian kids for not being independent, etc.
So, there I was, sitting there, going WhiskeyTangoFoxtrot
And then, it hit me, the glaring difference between Kiwis (and maybe most Caucasian families as well, judging from some of the stuff posted here) and the rest of the world.
The Kiwi families kick their kids out at 18 and practically cut them off financially. The kids have to "learn to be independent" and "live on their own two feet". This means that every generation, the kids have to start from the bottom of the pile, only going up as far as their own effort (which in the case of Kiwis, is not a heck of a lot) can lift them in one lifetime.
The migrant families, particularly the Asian ones, pass on their work from one generation to the next. Grandpa will start from the bottom, lacking even an education. He would slave and toil as a factory worker, unskilled labour, etc. He puts Dad through school and even fund his university education. Dad then gets a relatively good job and is much higher on the social ladder than Grandpa could ever dream of. Then Dad will use his earned wealth to fund Child's education and welfare and Child will do the same for Grandchild. Each generation climbs higher and higher, becoming more and more affluent.
So, we have the fruits of one generation on one hand, and the fruits of multiple generations on the other.
On one hand, we see people who moan about the wealth gap. On the other, people who see nothing wrong with a system which rewards the hardworking.
On one hand we see people who want wealth NOW! They want to make it NOW! It is all about me me me! On the other, we see people who see the long term, who care for their future family and want to ensure that the next generation is better off than this one.
On one hand, we see jealousy and hatred for the affluent. On the other, we see people who strive to join the affluent.
Now, my question is: How does this observation stack up where you are? Do you see the same type of social/cultural divide?