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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #20 on: September 26, 2008, 12:03:02 PM »
Not entirely. I honestly can't keep up with it as often as she wants to have it sometimes. Like, we're talking "I am spent, further arousal will cause me physical pain."
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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #21 on: September 26, 2008, 12:34:51 PM »
ya, the first five or six years it was easy to have sex 30 times month, if not once a day..

after 13 its difficult.. shit gets in the way...

but its a good goal to chase..
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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #22 on: September 26, 2008, 12:41:08 PM »
Quote from: Meg on September 26, 2008, 11:17:41 AM
So the first reaction of "Not now, I don't feel like it" is crap.
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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #23 on: September 26, 2008, 01:40:45 PM »
Uber learns another valuable lesson?  :lol
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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #24 on: September 26, 2008, 01:46:05 PM »
"not feeling like it" very valid..



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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #25 on: September 26, 2008, 03:42:11 PM »
Quote from: CountArioch on September 25, 2008, 10:00:02 PM

The guy in the story was bitching that him and his wife only had sex 3 times a month.  HOLY FUCKING SHIT!  I've never had sex that often at any point in my life, more like 6-10 times a year when I was married.

Seriously, having sex that often is fucking awesome, if you ask me.

Wow, I was married for about ten years, and had dated my ex for 7 years before that... so about 17 years with the same woman, and I would get frustrated if we couldn't do it at least once a week. Which we usually did, but towards the end, opposite work schedules, 2 kids, financial stress, our own domestic drama... that all put a pretty big damper on it.

On the other hand, a year later after separating, i started going out with a 24yr old, and my only comment on that is "be careful what you wish for".

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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #26 on: September 26, 2008, 07:02:31 PM »
Quote from: AstralFire on September 26, 2008, 12:03:02 PM
Not entirely. I honestly can't keep up with it as often as she wants to have it sometimes. Like, we're talking "I am spent, further arousal will cause me physical pain."

That's why I said usually women.

And while it's total bullshit that men want sex more, the stereotype of a woman saying "Not now.  Later" is there for a reason. 

Now uber- this IS assuming however a committed relationship.  Not a hook up.  And not in a new relationship.

"I don't feel like it" in that case means "Ew- are you kidding?" or "I'm too scared right now" or "It's that time of the month but I don't know you well enough to tell you that" or "I want to but I shouldn't... but I could be convinced...".

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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #27 on: September 26, 2008, 07:12:52 PM »
Meg's a smart lady. From my experience, she's right. and i'll add a little to that...

You can usually tell which of the three this is by the eyes. Maybe read one of those books that tell you all about body language, but in my experience, in that situation, her eyes will give it away. Of course, my disclaimer is that IMHO i think everyone's body language is a little different depending on cultural factors and each person's level of Introvert/Extrovert-ism.

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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #28 on: September 26, 2008, 07:14:40 PM »
Yep, Meg's right on the money as far as my experience goes :)

It's good to have a female geek giving us the inside scoops every now and then :P

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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #29 on: September 26, 2008, 07:19:04 PM »
Hon, I could run seminars. 
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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #30 on: September 26, 2008, 07:55:51 PM »
Quote from: Meg on September 26, 2008, 07:19:04 PM
Hon, I could run seminars. 

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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #31 on: September 26, 2008, 08:12:16 PM »
That would be one of the topics, yes. 

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Re: Attention married couples: HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN!
« Reply #32 on: September 26, 2008, 09:24:39 PM »
Quote from: Meg on September 26, 2008, 07:02:31 PM
Now uber- this IS assuming however a committed relationship.  Not a hook up.  And not in a new relationship.

"I don't feel like it" in that case means "Ew- are you kidding?" or "I'm too scared right now" or "It's that time of the month but I don't know you well enough to tell you that" or "I want to but I shouldn't... but I could be convinced...".
Why would you assume that uber's lady-friend did not want the special surprise inside?  Ubernoob: Unhealthily low sex drive.
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