Sexual attraction comes mostly from hormones. Considering how much women can have their system fucked up with the various birth control stuff (hell even food), it might be just that. Talk to her and try to figure out what happens
Count, no matter how many (bad) experience you had with womens, remember that it is still the minority and a minority from a small group most likely. Stop generalization as if you had fucked half the womens of this planet. Your own experiences are exactly that, your own experiences, not some broad law of women habits.
While I agree that it sounds as tho the good Count has burn burned before, and that experince has left him bitter and perhaps jaded... he does have a point.
I would not even mention it as a problem if I had not already past the stage where I tried to talk to her and figure it out... I did... LONG ago and many times. It's not a new thing... it's been a steady decline over a 2 year period... and all my attempts to talk to her about the problem have lead me to a run around, and angry reaction, or some other form of obfuscation.
No, in this case at least, the Count is right, and the lack of sharred intamate desire is a HUGE problem and a major warrning sign.
I just have not figure out what to do about it yet... as I am a pathetic, hopeless romantic who is still deeply in love with his wife... we seems to have somehow morphed into my best friend/roomate with *NO* desire at all for physical intamicy with me.
Anyway, I don't wanna derail a thread thats ment to be about HAPPY things... my bad...