Well, some people just don't take no for an answer...
Also, BIMR and AC know about this, but AC was having an argument with the fiance of a friend of ours about my relationship with my boyfriend.
Our friend's fiance was adamant that no matter what, being struck and beat up on is abuse, etc.
AC: No, you don't understand, he's not hitting her out of anger, she has trained him to do that, it's what she wants.
She kept arguing the point, where our friend chimes in with:
"Honey, he could pick up a chair, break it over her, and she would have an orgasm"
From what I understand, that killed her argument