ITT: Whisper gets bad touched by D&D, and whines about it some more.
Hi Welcome
You don't seem to get it. You're a rat pressing a lever, you spend all your time arguing about lever-pressing techniques, and you fuss when anyone asks whether pressing the lever at all is a good idea, possibly because you've invested a lot of time and effort in lever-pressing, or lever-pressing is a little pond for you to be a big fish in. I don't know.
Me? Well, I like design. I point out that D&D sucks, and some people agree; but actions speak louder than words. If they keep playing it, then maybe the message hasn't sunk in.
If you're really such a fine analytical mind, as opposed to just a creepy guy with an obsession, then you should be able to design a system that works. Hell, you can even start with D&D if you like.
Go on, give us one. What would you change?