Make a Monk/Bard.
No use of Ur Priest or Sublime Chord allowed.
That's not really the same, it's not someone claiming it's impossible. I think you just picked something weird.
Also, see the exact build above, but swap out 14 levels of monk for Shou Disciple 5/Bard 9. Drop Snap Kick. Add in Words of Creation and Song of the Heart. Take the Bardic Knack variant.
It's just as above, only your BAB is now higher, you have one fewer attacks (but you also don't get the -2 to hit), your AC is a little higher, and you've got a decent Inspire Courage (+6). Inspire Competance gives a +5 to skill checks, and Inspire Greatness gives +4HD when you need. Due to Bardic Knack you've got lots of little utility skills that aren't great, but are still handy (take 1 rank or even 1/2 rank in lots of trained only skills).
So, you're a melee powerhouse when it comes to charging, but you're also a decent party buffer with lots of little utility skills. Any skill you have a 1/2 rank in or can be used untrained you can effectively have 9 ranks in, which is nice for stuff like craft and appraise. You're by no means a godly caster, but you're certainly handy to have in game.
You could also do this by leaving in Snap Kick and just taking Imperious Command, then taking the Inspire Awe variant for bards, then taking Never Outnumbered. I'll let you figure out what that bit of madness does (basically it's awesome against anyone not immune to fear).
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