Will elaborate on this when I get back to books. Need to check MotUH's abilities again.
LG Grey elf Psion 1/Ghost 2/Monk 2...
Feats: Ability Focus (telekinesis), Improved Grapple, Psicrystal Affinity, Sacred Vow, Vow of Nonviolence, Vow of Peace
The DC for your telekinesis is 16 +1/2 HD +Cha, making it very hard to resist. A few more psion levels and you can pick up
solicit psicrystal to have it maintain a second instance of telekinesis to pelt people with 12+ simple monk weapons per turn (non-lethally) while you're hugging them, all of them magic weapons due to VoP. If you had, say, five levels in
this class you could do that at will.